Daily Mystic Messages - Fraudulent
Have you ever found that other people believe in you more than you believe in yourself?
Maybe you got a great job that you didn’t think you had a shot at. Or found yourself doing work that matters and that you really love, but maybe never considered how talented you are at it.
Somewhere inside is that little voice saying, “Oh my gosh, if they only knew! Sooner or later they’re going to see me for what I am. They’ll find me out!”
I’ve worked with thousands of people through their processes of healing and transformation, and this is way more common than you might think.
We look around and everyone else seems so put together. Like they know exactly what they’re doing, and somehow things just seem to work out for them. Then we look at ourselves…
- The struggles
- The anxiety and worries
- The failures and disappointments
- The uncertainty, and of course an inordinate amount of “Making things up as we go along, hoping for the best.”
Have you ever wondered, what if everyone were doing the same thing? Would you be so worried?
Spoiler alert: They are.
The real fear isn’t that you’ll be exposed as a fraud. It’s that they’ll confirm what part of you already believes about yourself.
Aside from being a stressful way of living, this also sends us into hiding. Playing it safe and making sure we don’t get seen or heard because if we’re exposed, we might get found out. And then what?
We wind up in a holding pattern, waiting for the right moment to step in, or waiting until we feel confident enough, not realizing that doubt festers in indecision and inaction.
The more you hide away, the more your confidence erodes. And the more you rob yourself of the opportunity to express and explore, to develop your skills and gain more certainty.
Action breeds confidence. Moving forward builds strength. Confidence and strength create certainty, and certainty is one of the most attractive forces known to man.
And the best part, is you have everything you need to take your next step right here. Right now. In this exact moment.
Today is your day to step up and shine.